about 2 months ago - 3 comments
Are there really failed marriages and relationships or do we just change? I met an interesting man while travelling in Africa. We stayed at his hotel on a remote island in Mozambique. It had been his dream to run a resort. His great passion is the sea. Before he built his hotel he did many…
about 2 months ago - 1 comment
Mindless phrases like “And how are you today?…” are driving me nuts. Or the new horror “Yeah/ No…” It’s one of the banes of my life – mindless social phrases. I’ve been on the phone for ages waiting for a call-centre stranger to pick up. I want to cut to the chase: to find out…
about 4 months ago - 3 comments
Three things you’ll really want to know about this holiday period like how to save your relationship. Hi readers, I’m back! Here are the three column blogs I wrote during the break on how to avoid holiday blues. 31s December How to avoid becoming an +++hole. this time of year It’s that time of year…
about 4 months ago - 2 comments
Call Centres are driving us all crazy I WAS dealing with a call centre recently, trying to get something I had organised to be cancelled. The process was exhausting. Every time I called I had to stay on the line for at least a half hour because of the pre-Christmas backup. And each time I…
about 5 months ago - 9 comments
We should respect those who help with sexual problems not condemn them. I’VE known several sex surrogates and have admired them all, which is why I was so surprised recently to hear that a Melbourne sex therapist had called them glorified prostitutes and called for an end to the practice. Surrogates are women or men…
about 8 months ago - 42 comments
HOW do we cope with the untimely deaths of close friends? How do we find meaning in grief? I was overwhelmed with this question recently when I found my old address book and realised that so many friends were no longer around. I was reminded of all the women and men I’ve loved who died…
about 8 months ago - 14 comments
Envy is our best friends. It can tell us what we really want under all that resentment, so we can go get it SEVERAL years ago, I noticed I was feeling very unfavourable towards a certain friend. Every time I talked to her, I felt out of sorts. I began noticing things I didn’t like…
about 9 months ago - 23 comments
Buddhists say there are only real two emotional states, Love and Fear. And that all other emotions stems from them. Which one governs you? A WONDERFUL tale. A dear friend of mine was very worried because life was about to change in ways that were beyond his control. The house he was renting was unexpectedly…
about 10 months ago - 37 comments
How it is that some relationships stand the test of time and others just don’t? I RAN into an old friend the other day. It was a chance meeting. I consider this woman one of my true soul mates; someone I’ve shared so much with during the early days of my career. We have a…
about 10 months ago - 42 comments
BRACE YOURSELF WINS A $50 GIFT VOUCHER TO THE PLEASURE SPOT WHICH SPECIALISES IN ON-LINE EROTICA I WASN’T surprised by a recent hotel industry survey that showed couples who go away are more likely to watch television than have sex. Around 80 per cent of Australian hotel guests responded that they preferred to turn…