Archive | Life columns & features 14-15
How to keep your brain young
Slow the process of ageing
In Love with life
Has your relationship ended and you’re feeling blue? This is the time to discover what makes you happy Continue Reading →
Lies will tear us apart
Addicted to Love
Claws and effect
IT was the weekend from hell. An impossible amount of things to do and worry about. Two major stories due in, a removal van coming to take away several pieces of furniture and deliver new stuff, a daughter arriving back from abroad needing airport pick-up, and a close friend in crisis. There was going to be no time to eat or sleep if I were to get through. Continue Reading →
Compassion in short supply
My partner and I were walking the streets of Palermo one night while in Sicily. Sitting on the street was an old homeless man. He was trembling, with his head buried in his arms. He had a sign in Italian that I could make out meant his wife was dead; no children; he was too sick to get a job or something to that effect. Continue Reading →
Moments of Truth
THE question of what is ethical and rightful action is a tricky one. I was speaking with one of my spiritual teachers and she told me this story. A monk was walking along a country path and saw a child about to be bitten by a snake. He was left with the question: does he kill the snake or let it bite the child? Continue Reading →
Positive psychology step by step
Most of us have realised the degree to which negative thinking undermines our success and creates unhappiness. Continue Reading →
Pleasure & eudemonia
In most religions the pursuit of pleasure is frowned on. Interestingly, the Dalai Lama preaches what may be considered the opposite, that our happiness and joy are nothing short of the very meaning of life. Continue Reading →